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Any decent copywriter would probably fire me for that title. It’s a phrase I repeat just about every night (unless I’m travelling). It started off simple, but has developed a meaning, maybe even a personal philosophy.

Hershey is our Chocolate Lab (Yes, sometimes I call my dog The Hershey). We have one of each color. Each have their own personalities and idiosyncrasies. This one lives for attention. There is no such thing as too much attention for that dog. How about an example?

Hershey enjoying a run through the snow

Hershey enjoying a run through the snow

It wasn’t all that long after we adopted her from the local animal shelter that we took her to the dog park. It was “Lab Day” hosted by a rescue group and everyone was invited to bring their Labs (Lab owners tend to think it’s the only dog anyone should have. I understand that.) We knew she liked people but we didn’t realize how much. Continue Reading…

Did you make your to do list this morning? Or did you do it last night before bed? Despite when you made the list, what did you put first?

Several years ago I heard about a book by Brian Tracy called Eat That Frog! The title came from a saying that if you eat a live frog first thing in the morning, that is probably going to be the hardest thing you do all day. Everything after that will be easy by comparison. Another popular phrase is slay the dragon, meaning take whatever you are dreading the most and do it first.

Photo by Mastery of Maps of Flickr

Photo by Mastery of Maps of Flickr

This is a great way too start your day for several reasons:

It builds character. Doing that difficult thing first takes resolve. We are by nature procrastinators. Once you get in the habit of slaying the dragon, it becomes easier.

It eases your mind. I got into this habit when I realized how much of my energy went into worrying about the dragon. I would spend my whole day putting off that phone call or conversation. But it had to be done. By getting it out of the way early, I didn’t have to think about it again.

It makes your other tasks seem easier. We usually like to spend time on things we can do easily or quickly, then the hard stuff gets pushed aside. When you tackle the worst first, the rest become less.

It shows you are proactive. If the boss asks you to do something that you don’t want to do, it looks much better when you can say it’s already taken care of.

It builds momentum: You’ll also find you can fly through your your task list faster once the frog has been eaten. Easier tasks are, well, easier! You also won’t drag them out in an attempt to forestall the meeting with that dragon.

It makes you younger. Okay, not really, but it can help reduce stress and tension, both of which will help you live longer.

Exceptions:

It’s not always practical to hit the hard stuff head on. Your dragon may be a presentation that doesn’t start until 3:00pm. Or you may need to return a dozen client emails before your go have that long meeting with your boss.

You also will have days where you have a ton of small, insignificant tasks that you could easily complete for a morale boost. There are days when I have 15 or 20 nagging little things on my list starting at me. Sometimes I will take an hour to knock most of them out if it means that I can focus on the big stuff afterwards.

This should be the exception. When able, take on the most difficult of your tasks first. It will give you more energy, reduce your worry, and make you more productive.

Do you start with the hardest thing first, or do you like to build momentum with easy tasks?


One of my blogging mentors (though he doesn’t know it), it Michael Hyatt. His latest project Platform University, is a soon-to be-launched site that will help you to build your platform, develop your audience, and get your message out.

I watched the first video, subscribed, and was notified when the second video came out. While watching it last night, I thought I saw something out of the corner of my eye. I backed it up, and sure enough, I made it into the video. There was my 1.13 seconds of fame.

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Sign up and watch the videos. The first two are currently available and you will be notified when the next is online. Michael’s help is invaluable. He does a great job showing you where he made mistakes. Then he shows you how to benefit from those mistakes without having to repeat them.

Yesterday we discussed things that make up a goal you have a reasonable chance of finishing. Today we’ll go through the steps of goal planning that will keep you motivated and on track. This is an easy time of year to set goals (just visit your local gym on January 2nd) only to forget about them soon after (go visit the gym again on February 2nd!). Life soon gets in the way and our goals yield to things like grocery shopping, laundry, etc. So here is how to create a plan of action you can stick with.

Image by Ha-Wee on Flickr

Image by Ha-Wee on Flickr

Take out a sheet of paper and make a numbered list. You can write these down now and create a new sheet for each of your goals.

1. Goal: List whatever your goal is. Remember the WHY SMART principles from yesterday. Make sure it fits those criteria. Continue Reading…

I read this week that only 8% of people complete their New Year Resolutions. That was a little surprising because I expected the number to be lower. The majority of us will at least think of a few resolutions, while far fewer will take the time to write them down. There has to be something you want to accomplish in the next year, so why not make it happen? The most likely reason will be lack of planning.

Image by Marco Arment on Flickr

Image by Marco Arment on Flickr

Too often, resolutions are less about what you honestly want to accomplish and more like “things I’d like to do if they don’t take too much time or effort”. You verbalize them, or even write them down, but that is as far as you ever get. When it’s something you actually want to accomplish, there can be a sense of disappointment when it doesn’t happen.

“A goal without a plan is just a wish”. -Antoine de Saint-Exupery

The question is, how do you make a plan that you will be able to follow through on? Continue Reading…

The Benefits of Reading

December 17, 2012 — Leave a comment

How many books did you read this year? If the number is low, you don’t have a lot of time to catch up, especially with the hectic schedule most of us keep from Thanksgiving through the end of the year. But you can start planning how you will read more in the upcoming year. Why read more? Below I’ve compiled a quick list of reasons everyone should make time for reading.

Image by KellBailey on Flickr

Image by KellBailey on Flickr

Reduce Stress and Relax

I didn’t read a book cover to cover until after I was married. Like you, I have a million things to do in my day. Aside from my day job that occasionally requires travel and/or overtime, I do some freelance consulting work, serve on the board of a local non-profit, and manage to wedge writing in there somewhere. I also actively work to spend as much time with my wonderful wife as possible. So I get it, life is busy and busy often equates to stress.

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