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You know that feeling? Maybe it’s a voice that you hear as a whisper after a rough week at work. Maybe it’s a nagging feeling that you just can’t shake. At some point, you’ve certainly felt as if you were destined for more. If you’re hearing that voice, no matter how faint, chances are, it’s right.

Flickr image by kugel

Flickr image by kugel

As a kid, I never understood why people would come home from work and spend the whole night sitting on the couch watching television. As an adult with a demanding full time job and responsibilities I don’t always want to tend to, I get it. At the same time, I have dreams. Maybe they aren’t huge, universe-altering plans, but there are things I want to do and accomplish.

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How would you like to attend Stanford…for free? Yes, THAT Stanford.

Flickr image by Jill Clardy

Flickr image by Jill Clardy

In the Fall of 2011, Stanford began offering courses online to the general public for free. They are two weeks shorter than the version enrolled students take on campus, but offer roughly the same content and assignments. You complete live quizzes and received instant feedback on how you scored. Online students can also submit questions to be processed through new technologies the university is trying which will rank the questions and decide which should be posted for instructors to answer.

Stanford web page with more information.

The database course would probably be the most beneficial for me, but I’d rather take one of the other two courses. Here are the first courses being offered:









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Do you think free online courses will be a major source of education in the future?

How would you define success? Is it a nice job, big house, new cars, closets full of clothes? That seems to be how we, as Americans, tend to view success. We see the guy driving the big Mercedes and wearing a nice suit as successful, while the guy driving a 15 year old pick up and wearing dirty work clothes may not have the same appeal. It’s easy to assume one is successful and the other isn’t.

Photo by Gareth Williams on Flickr

Photo by Gareth Williams on Flickr

There’s a good chance the guy in the Mercedes leased as much car as he could afford, is upside down on his mortgage, and is nearly $150,000 in credit card debt. He and his wife fight constantly over money, how much he makes, how much she spends. They take exotic vacations and eat at the nice restaurants paid for with credit cards. They live in real fear that they could loose the house if he looses his job, which he hates. Continue Reading…

Any decent copywriter would probably fire me for that title. It’s a phrase I repeat just about every night (unless I’m travelling). It started off simple, but has developed a meaning, maybe even a personal philosophy.

Hershey is our Chocolate Lab (Yes, sometimes I call my dog The Hershey). We have one of each color. Each have their own personalities and idiosyncrasies. This one lives for attention. There is no such thing as too much attention for that dog. How about an example?

Hershey enjoying a run through the snow

Hershey enjoying a run through the snow

It wasn’t all that long after we adopted her from the local animal shelter that we took her to the dog park. It was “Lab Day” hosted by a rescue group and everyone was invited to bring their Labs (Lab owners tend to think it’s the only dog anyone should have. I understand that.) We knew she liked people but we didn’t realize how much. Continue Reading…

Blank paper (or a blank screen) can be the hardest writing obstacle to overcome. You’ve probably discovered this already. Those first few sentences can be the most difficult. Google “writing prompts” and you will find millions of website that lists things you can write about. I know, I’ve been on all of them. Not a single one produced a good idea. Most were either so generic it hurt, or topics I had zero interest writing about.

Photo compliments of planetofsuccess.com/blog

Photo compliments of planetofsuccess.com/blog

For many years, I would write about whatever came to mind. Still, I had a hard time coming up with a topic and getting those few few sentences written. Once I decided my writing would be more than an inconsistent hobby, I knew I had to find a narrow focus. This scared me. Continue Reading…

Did you make your to do list this morning? Or did you do it last night before bed? Despite when you made the list, what did you put first?

Several years ago I heard about a book by Brian Tracy called Eat That Frog! The title came from a saying that if you eat a live frog first thing in the morning, that is probably going to be the hardest thing you do all day. Everything after that will be easy by comparison. Another popular phrase is slay the dragon, meaning take whatever you are dreading the most and do it first.

Photo by Mastery of Maps of Flickr

Photo by Mastery of Maps of Flickr

This is a great way too start your day for several reasons:

It builds character. Doing that difficult thing first takes resolve. We are by nature procrastinators. Once you get in the habit of slaying the dragon, it becomes easier.

It eases your mind. I got into this habit when I realized how much of my energy went into worrying about the dragon. I would spend my whole day putting off that phone call or conversation. But it had to be done. By getting it out of the way early, I didn’t have to think about it again.

It makes your other tasks seem easier. We usually like to spend time on things we can do easily or quickly, then the hard stuff gets pushed aside. When you tackle the worst first, the rest become less.

It shows you are proactive. If the boss asks you to do something that you don’t want to do, it looks much better when you can say it’s already taken care of.

It builds momentum: You’ll also find you can fly through your your task list faster once the frog has been eaten. Easier tasks are, well, easier! You also won’t drag them out in an attempt to forestall the meeting with that dragon.

It makes you younger. Okay, not really, but it can help reduce stress and tension, both of which will help you live longer.

Exceptions:

It’s not always practical to hit the hard stuff head on. Your dragon may be a presentation that doesn’t start until 3:00pm. Or you may need to return a dozen client emails before your go have that long meeting with your boss.

You also will have days where you have a ton of small, insignificant tasks that you could easily complete for a morale boost. There are days when I have 15 or 20 nagging little things on my list starting at me. Sometimes I will take an hour to knock most of them out if it means that I can focus on the big stuff afterwards.

This should be the exception. When able, take on the most difficult of your tasks first. It will give you more energy, reduce your worry, and make you more productive.

Do you start with the hardest thing first, or do you like to build momentum with easy tasks?


One of my blogging mentors (though he doesn’t know it), it Michael Hyatt. His latest project Platform University, is a soon-to be-launched site that will help you to build your platform, develop your audience, and get your message out.

I watched the first video, subscribed, and was notified when the second video came out. While watching it last night, I thought I saw something out of the corner of my eye. I backed it up, and sure enough, I made it into the video. There was my 1.13 seconds of fame.

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Sign up and watch the videos. The first two are currently available and you will be notified when the next is online. Michael’s help is invaluable. He does a great job showing you where he made mistakes. Then he shows you how to benefit from those mistakes without having to repeat them.

Think back 10 years. If you’re like me, you still think 10 years ago was 1990. You don’t have to go that far. What were some of the important events in your life in 2003? How did they affect you? What did you learn? A regularly kept journal can answer these questions, help you remember the past, and provide insights into what was happening.

Image by Walt Stoneburner on Flickr

Image by Walt Stoneburner on Flickr

Many people hear the word journal and picture the small lined notebook with a lock and a cute little key. That’s a little girl’s diary, not a journal. You’ve probably thought about keeping a journal before, or may have even started one, but for whatever reason, you let it go. You may have struggled with not having anything to write or failed to see the point. I mean, after all, who is going to want to read your thoughts in fifty years? Continue Reading…

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I have been a fan of Michael Hyatt for quite some time. Much of the work I’ve done to this site over the last six months has been based on tips I’ve found reading his website. I bought his newest book during launch week and am on my third reading. Each time I go through it, I tweak something else.

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Yesterday we discussed things that make up a goal you have a reasonable chance of finishing. Today we’ll go through the steps of goal planning that will keep you motivated and on track. This is an easy time of year to set goals (just visit your local gym on January 2nd) only to forget about them soon after (go visit the gym again on February 2nd!). Life soon gets in the way and our goals yield to things like grocery shopping, laundry, etc. So here is how to create a plan of action you can stick with.

Image by Ha-Wee on Flickr

Image by Ha-Wee on Flickr

Take out a sheet of paper and make a numbered list. You can write these down now and create a new sheet for each of your goals.

1. Goal: List whatever your goal is. Remember the WHY SMART principles from yesterday. Make sure it fits those criteria. Continue Reading…